Charming, but single

It has been seven months since I last opened the floor for questions. Since readers seem to cycle in and out (and because I am having a long workweek) I thought La Charming would answer questions again. You can read the previous answers here. The same rules as last time apply, meaning– I am not doing anything to further crumble my already damaged anonymity. I probably will not answer repeats and I reserve the right to ignore you if you are being mean, offensive or otherwise obnoxious. So, post your questions in the comments. They can be about me, about blogging, about men, about dating, about shoes, etc. And, you can ask as many as you like, be‘cause if you get annoying, I will just ignore you like a drunk drooling boy at a bar. You ha’ve been warned. Just remember that I a’m a professional question-answerer and I can be pretty slick.